There are some things that a guy and the husband should just do. I don’t like getting the oil changed. It is just such a hassle especailly when you have little kids. And then I had to pick up the air conditioner that came in at walmart…that thing is heavy. I am not doing this again. The thing is that I already do it … big mistake. I told my sister if you don’t want to have to do everything then make sure when you get married just don’t do the things you want him to do…I do everything and it is a pain in the ass.