My cousin just had a baby and it really bothered me how these doctors treated her. She is young – 21 and married so 30 years ago she would have been so young to be already married with a kid but these days that is considered young. They talked to her like she was an idiot and she doesn’t know what she is doing because this is her first child so she needed a little guidance and help. She doesn’t need to be treated like she is a complete idiot. She went through a lot already have a 12 week premature baby.