People are just so busy these days and things really do not slow down when you start that family…things tend to speed up. The key to having that good relationship with your children as well as your spouse is communication. But you need to make time for that….you have to make time for each other and you can go to your local book store to pick up that family guide book to help you out. Sometimes they have really great ideas and solutions to your problems that you may not have thought out. Family should always come first and that means setting priorities and time aside.